Do you believe in soulmates?

SurfersMatch members weighed in on this question. Here’s what 2,315 people had to say.

do you believe in soulmates

The Winner

Top answer
Absolutely, everyone has their perfect match
52.9% of votes — 1,225 out of 2,315

Poll Results

Absolutely, everyone has their perfect match
52.9%
1,225
I’m open to it...
16.2%
374
Yes, but there could be more than one
16.1%
373
I’m still figuring it out
10.9%
252
Hell no, you can find love anywhere!
3.9%
91

Demographics: Gender Breakdown per Answer

Absolutely, everyone has their perfect match
Gender breakdown
Men
59.9%
Women
40.0%
Couples
0.0%
Other
0.1%
I’m open to it...
Gender breakdown
Men
65.0%
Women
34.5%
Couples
0.0%
Other
0.5%
Yes, but there could be more than one
Gender breakdown
Men
58.2%
Women
41.3%
Couples
0.0%
Other
0.5%
I’m still figuring it out
Gender breakdown
Men
66.3%
Women
33.7%
Couples
0.0%
Other
0.0%
Hell no, you can find love anywhere!
Gender breakdown
Men
61.5%
Women
38.5%
Couples
0.0%
Other
0.0%

Demographics: Age Distribution (All Voters)

18–24
4.2%
25–34
11.3%
35–44
16.0%
45–54
19.4%
55–64
24.6%
65+
24.5%

What the Data Shows

Belief in soulmates runs deep in the SurfersMatch community. A commanding 52.9% say “Absolutely, everyone has their perfect match” — a figure that speaks to the romanticism at the heart of why people seek connection online. When you combine that with the 16.1% who are “open to it,” more than two in three members lean toward the soulmate idea in some form.

Skeptics are a clear minority here: just 3.9% flatly reject the concept. What’s notable is how the “Yes, but there could be more than one” camp (16.1%) signals a modern twist — romantic optimism without rigid fate. These members believe in deep connection, they just leave room for more than one shot at it.

Age-wise, the strongest soulmate believers are concentrated in the 55–64 and 65+ brackets, suggesting that lived experience — both heartbreak and enduring love — tends to solidify rather than erode romantic faith. Younger voters skew slightly more undecided, which tracks with the emotional complexity of early adulthood.

This poll received 2,315 responses from SurfersMatch members. Demographics are self-reported. Poll published October 9, 2024.

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